Anal sex was once taboo. Now, it is quickly becoming much more popular. The possibility of new and exciting bedroom activities may have you considering trying anal sex for the first time. Here are answers to some of the most common anal sex questions.
1. Do I Need to Use Lube?
This answer is easy—you should absolutely use lube. Especially if this is your first time, you’ll want to stock up. This is because the anus, like the vagina, has muscles that must relax in order to allow penetration. Lubrication will help you achieve that.
Not all lube is equal, however. Make sure you use lubricant made specifically for anal sex for the best possible experience. Take a look through our inventory of anal play lubricants to see what you might like to try. Most anal lubricants will help loosen you up for more fun, while others may actually do the opposite.
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2. Should I Start Slow?
Yes, it’s best to take it slow when experimenting with anal sex. You may want to try it out alone first, while you masturbate. This can help you get used to the sensation and allow you to find out what you like.
When you’re ready to try it with a partner, make sure that you have lube and condoms at the ready. You may also want to ask your partner to clip their fingernails to avoid scratching and bleeding.
Take your time during foreplay. This will help you—and your anus—relax for the main event. Your partner should start with fingers or toys. Not all toys are safe for anal, so make sure to choose sex toys designed specifically for anal insertion.
Finally, give anal sex a few tries. You may experience bleeding the first or second time, so take it slow until everyone is comfortable.
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3. Should I Wash After?
When it comes to anal sex, cleanliness is key. It’s not advisable to have vaginal or oral sex afterward, as that may spread germs like E. Coli. If you decide to switch, make sure to change the condom in between and wash hands and toys.
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4. Are There Any Risks?
Bacteria is just one of the anal sex health risks to consider before trying it out. For example, hemorrhoids are not typically caused by anal sex but may be irritated by the act. Sexually transmitted infections, like herpes and HIV, can also be spread through anal sex as well as vaginal sex. Finally, colon perforation is possible during anal sex if you aren’t careful. Though highly unlikely, this requires surgery to correct if it occurs.
5. Can Anal Sex Spice Up the Bedroom?
Another easy answer—YES! Anal stimulation not only adds to the fun but can also lead directly to orgasm. If you’re feeling adventurous and looking for something new to try, anal sex might be exactly what you need.
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