5 Lesbian Sex Toys You Need to Try ASAP

It’s LGBTQ Pride Month, and FunLove.com is here to help you celebrate. From rainbow boobie pops to pecker ring tosses, our signature Pride collection has everything you need to throw the hottest Pride party, not to mention bachelor, bachelorette, and birthday parties. Plus, we also have some pleasurable ideas for heating up your sex life all year-round. In this blog, our sexperts are highlighting some of the best lesbian sex toys you just might be overlooking.

#5: Wands

magic wandsThere’s no need to reinvent the wheel—wands have been go-to lesbian sex toys for half a century. But with so many high-tech gadgets on the market these days, the wand may have fallen out of favor with younger generations due to its bulk and noise level. This is one case where you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover.


Wands are great for direct clitoral stimulation, nipple stimulation, and even as an all-around body massager. If you haven’t tried out one of the many makes and models of vibrating wands out there, do your clit a favor and take the leap. 

You can opt for the original Magic Wand, with its plug-in extension cord (no charging necessary), buzzy vinyl head, and up to 6,000 RPMs of intense, rumbling vibrations. Or, if you’re looking for something a little less intimidating, try the much more petite Lit Clit Teeny Weenie Wand for slender, lightweight, pocket-sized pleasure. 

Pro tip: If you’re new to wands, be sure to start your explorations on the lowest setting and work your way up from there. You’ll be on your way to an epic orgasm in no time.

#4: Double-Ended Dildos

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If you and your partner are both into penetration, the double-ended dildo is a must-have lesbian sex toy. Double-ended dildos are common fixtures in lesbian porn—you know, the type that caters almost exclusively to the straight male gaze—but this really can be a satisfying toy for lesbian partners.

Double-ended dildos are super versatile. They can be used solo or in tandem with a partner, from vagina to vagina, vagina to anus, mouth to mouth, or any combination thereof. To get the most out of this mutually beneficial sex toy, try exploring different positions. Back-to-back doggy-style is great for deep penetration, while sitting face to face while moving your pelvises in unison is great for more romantic, intimate sex.

Pro tip: When using dildos of any kind, remember that personal lubricant is your friend. Regardless of how wet you naturally are, the right kind of lube can lead to longer-lasting, more comfortable sex. Learn more about choosing the right lube.

#3: Panty Vibes

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Calling all exhibitionists and femdoms: if you haven’t tried panty vibes yet, you’re missing out. If you’ve ever fantasized about secretly giving your partner an orgasm in public or getting your rocks off in the middle of a rock concert, this is the sex toy for you. Wearable panty vibrators come in all different shapes, sizes, and intensities. Some are fully insertable, while others are placed snugly in specially-made underwear for indirect stimulation. 

Panty vibes often come with a remote control, often disguised as a ring, wristwatch, or bracelet. Whoever is in control of the remote also controls your pleasure. This can be a great toy for hands-free stimulation at home or discreet fun while out at the club. Forget playing footsie at dinner and use one of these to tease and please your partner instead. You’ll be asking for the check before you know it.

Pro tip: Get one for both of you and take turns making each other squirm on your next date night. 

#2: Strapless Strap-Ons

Happy Rabbit Strapless Strap-On

Ah, the strap-on: a classic lesbian sex toy. As much as we love them, traditional strap-ons can be a bit time-consuming to put on and don’t always provide much pleasure for the wearer (other than the pleasure of pleasing their partner, of course). If all those straps and harnesses aren’t quite a turn on for your or your partner, strapless strap-ons are a must-try. 

The short end of the strapless strap-on may require a bit of Kegel training, since it’s held in place by the wearer’s vaginal muscles, but the tradeoff is more than worth it. The longer end of the strap-on can provide your partner with deep, vibrating penetration while the wearer can enjoy both their partner’s responses and G-spot stimulation at the same time. Strapless strap-ons tend to work best in cowgirl, doggy style, or spooning positions.

Pro tip: If you’re looking forward to trying a strapless strap-on but still need to work on those Kegels, opt for a strap-on with a bigger base at first—this will make it easier for you to keep in place during sex.

#1: Interactive App Toys

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In the digital age, our cultural definitions of sex are constantly expanding. From sexting to video sex, there are more ways than ever to engage with a partner without being in the same room or even in the same hemisphere. For this reason, interactive app toys are our number one pick for versatile, inclusive, and satisfying lesbian sex toys. 

Whether your partner travels a lot for work, you’re in a long-distance relationship, or you just want to pleasure them from across the room, interactive app toys have you covered. These high-tech toys can be controlled remotely and seamlessly by your partner using free downloadable apps from virtually anywhere in the world. From wands to butt plugs to suction toys, interactive app toys keep your remote sex sessions unique and satisfying every time.

Pro tip: Interactive app toys aren’t just for long-distance lovers. They can also be a helpful sex aid for those with disabilities or limited mobility.

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