Despite claims and even scientific studies claiming that the G-spot doesn’t exist, many can attest that it is, in fact, very real and very pleasurable—if you’re one of the lucky ones who can find it and feel it. Whether you can locate your own G-spot like you’re drawing a map, or you need a little help to get to the destination, FunLove can help you reach it!
May is National Masturbation Month, so we’re celebrating with this guide to help you rock your G-spot solo. Think women are the only ones with a G-spot? Men have one, too! Keep reading to learn more about how you can find the G-spot and take your “me time” to new levels.
The Female G-spot
The clitoris gets the majority of the attention when it comes to the female orgasm. However, stimulating the G-spot either solo or blended with clitoral, nipple, or anal stimulation is truly the pleasure powerhouse for women—that is, if you can find it.
First, what is the G-spot, exactly? Ernst Gräfenberg, a German doctor and scientist, wrote about the G-spot in the 1950s. The name was coined by Dr. Beverly Whipple in the 1980s when she was studying female ejaculation or squirting. Dr. Whipple believed that this mysterious region of the vagina could help women achieve orgasm. According to a 2014 study, squirting occurs during G-spot orgasms. So, if you’ve experienced this, you’ve found the G-spot!
The G-spot is not a completely different part of the body. In fact, scientists aren’t really sure what it is. The most commonly accepted definition of the G-spot is that it is actually an internal portion of the clitoris which extends into the vagina about four inches. The clitoris is a network of sorts and separates into two “roots” in the vagina. If the G-spot is a part of the clitoris, this means every woman has one. You just need to find it.
How to Find the Female G-spot
One of the reasons why finding the G-spot is so difficult is that it is in a different location for every woman due to their body and genetics. For the most part, the G-spot is located in the front wall of the vagina. Luckily, it’s easier to find the G-spot on your own. Learning where your G-spot is can enhance your sex life with your partner so you can teach them what you like in the bedroom.
To start your treasure hunt, it’s best to be slightly aroused. Use a toy or your fingers to get started. Then, move the toy or fingers upwards towards the belly button and use a “come hither” motion. The G-spot does feel different from the rest of the vagina or even the clitoris—many describe it as feeling rough and about the size of a walnut.
For a lot of women, this will be very pleasurable. Keep going as the feeling intensifies and continue on with the “come hither” motion. Not every woman will find this pleasurable, so just focus on what feels good to you!
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The Male-G-spot
Ladies aren’t the only ones with G-spot. For men, it’s a lot less complicated and should be easier to locate. For males, the G-spot is their prostate, which is the portion of the male reproductive system that creates seminal fluid.
Often called the “P-Spot” for prostate, the male version is located in the rectum, about two inches in. Similar to the clitoris, the prostate has a network of nerves that, when stimulated, lead to increased pleasure.
How To Find The Male G-spot
While the prostate is located in the rectum, it can be stimulated both internally and externally. To stimulate the prostate internally, insert a finger or toy about two inches into the rectum, and point upwards. For external stimulation, touch the perineum and push up. To make the prostate easier to find, get your partner aroused—it will begin to swell with seminal fluid and expand in size.
Before engaging in prostate play, make sure to discuss it with your partner to make sure everyone is on board. Invest in a good anal lube, which is thicker than vaginal lubes, for added sensation and friction reduction. Also, make sure to practice good hygiene when engaging in prostate play and use an anal douche beforehand to avoid the spread of bacteria.
The Best G-spot Toys at FunLove
No matter if you’ve got a G-spot or a P-Spot, FunLove has the perfect toy to help you find it! Check out the bestselling Fantasy For Her Ultimate Pleasure, which combines a suction tongue toy with a G-spot vibe for the ultimate pleasurable experience. Along with hi-tech sex toys, we also have a wide selection of glass dildos designed specially to hit the G-spot.
For those with a prostate, we recommend the Zero Tolerance Intro To Prostate Kit that includes a selection of prostate toys for both beginners and experts. Want to get a little kinky? Check out our strap-on toys, perfect for pegging.
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