The world of BDSM is vast and can be overwhelming to newcomers. One of the best ways to get started is by going with a tried and true sex toy, such as a ball gag. One of the most instantly recognizable sex toys, ball gags are simple devices that cover a person’s mouth, leaving them unable to talk. Although these toys are fairly straightforward, there are many things that could go wrong while using a ball gag and lead to serious injuries. Today, Fascinations will tell you how pleasurable these sex toys can be and share five tips on how to use a ball gag safely.

Why Do People Enjoy Ball Gags?

Ball gags can be enjoyed by the person wearing them and their partner. Some people enjoy changing up power dynamics during sex, and a ball gag is perfect for domination. As you’ve probably guessed, the person wearing the gag can’t speak, while their partner can. Feeling power over your partner is one of the most common kinks in the bedroom.

On the flip side, some people enjoy feeling dominated by their partner. They enjoy being restrained and controlled by a lover. The best part is that you and your partner can use ball gags to mix up the power dynamics, taking turns being the dominant one and the dominated.

Lastly, some people love to use ball gags for sloppy sex. Being unable to fully breathe out of your mouth and swallow can lead to a buildup of saliva. As you’re moaning and yelping with pleasure, you may also start drooling. Every now and then, people enjoy changing things up with hot, sweaty, sloppy, and drooly sex.

Five Tips to Use a Ball Gag Safely

Now that you have a better understanding of how much fun a ball gag can be, the next step is becoming familiar with ball gag safety. As with any device that enters your body or restricts breathing, ball gags can be dangerous. Here are five ball gag safety tips to ensure that you and your partner play safely.

1. The Right Fit Is Everything: The first and most important step is making sure that the ball gag fits you properly. If it’s too loose, it won’t be pleasurable at all. If it’s too tight, it can cause breathing difficulties or cut off circulation. Since everyone’s head size and shape differ, achieving the right fit can be tricky. Some people use bondage tape to keep gags secure, while others try different models until they find the right one. Fascinations’ knowledgeable staff can help you find the best gag for you.
2. Don’t Use a Ball Gag If You Have Certain Health Conditions: People with chronic respiratory issues should not use a ball gag. This also applies to those with colds, allergy attacks, or sinus infections. Wait until your ailment has passed before using a gag.
3. Build Up Your Jaw Strength: Ball gags keep your mouth in an unnatural position, which can strain your jaw. Start with 10-minute sessions to build jaw strength. Gradually add five minutes at a time as you get comfortable. Before long, you’ll be able to enjoy a ball gag for an hour or more.
4. Establish a Non-Verbal Safe word: Safe words are crucial for BDSM safety, but they’re impractical when using a ball gag. Agree on a non-verbal safe word with your partner, such as tugging on their ear or making an “X” with your arms. Clear communication is essential.
5. Wash Your Ball Gag: Always wash your ball gag after use. Even though the ball gags from Fascinations are made from body-safe materials, bacteria can build up if not cleaned properly, potentially causing infections. Use warm water and antibacterial soap, then store your ball gag in one of our sex toy storage options.

Get Your Ball Gags at Fascinations

Now that you know how to use a ball gag safely, the next step is finding the right one for you in our online store or at Fascinations retail locations. Our friendly and knowledgeable staff can help you find the best ball gag for your needs. With more than 30 years of experience in the sex toy industry, you can trust Fascinations to provide high-quality products to elevate your pleasure.

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