The beautiful thing about a hand job is that there are no limits as to when and where one can happen—aside from socially acceptable locales, of course. Hand jobs can also be a fun and frisky way to rev up your guy so that he’s pumped and ready for action. With a few minor modifications, you could introduce him to a variety of different hand job techniques that will have him coming back for more.
Need to Know Hand Job Techniques
When it comes to hand jobs, you are better off keeping it simple. Don’t overthink it. Just make sure that you ask your guy what he likes, dislikes, and is open to trying. Then, pay attention to vocal, facial, and other body cues as well.
With that in mind, here are a few basics to help you go from start to happy ending.
Start with Lube
First things first—you need to buy a good lube. When your guy began exploring the pleasures of stroking his happy stick at an early age, he may have relied on a bit of spit to reduce friction. Thankfully, he was later introduced to the much more functional uses of intimate lube.
But not all lubes are created equal. If you are unsure of whether to buy a silicone, water-based, or oil-based lube, check out our blog for details on which variety may work best for you and your guy.
Just be aware that oil-based lubes degrade latex. If you plan to follow up with penetrative sex, using an oil-based lube could lead to an ineffective condom.
Use Different Strokes
As the saying goes, there are different strokes for different folks. Depending on your guy's preference, you may want to gradually transition from firm to soft pressure, slow to fast pace, and add a twisting motion as you glide up and down.
You can also try encircling the base of his penis with one hand (like a cock ring) while using your other hand to stroke with different techniques. Or, try fisting both hands on top of each other and pulsing your fingers while twisting up and down.
If your guy hasn’t had his foreskin removed, it opens up different pleasure opportunities. Ask him for guidance on whether he prefers the foreskin to be retracted or left in place while caressing the sensitive head underneath.
Taint, Like the Others
The taint (aka perineum) is another sensitive erogenous zone on your guy. This area, situated between his scrotum and anus, can be stimulated by gently pressing into it as if pushing a button to target his G-spot.
Some Guys Are Ballers
Some guys prefer a hand job to focus 100% on their penis, but others enjoy a bit of ball play too. If he’s open to it, avoid squeezing them like lemons or rolling them like marbles. Instead, try these techniques:
- Gently cradle them in one hand
- Lightly caress your fingers around them
- Softly stroke the sensitive area between the two testicles
- Slide a finger from the top of one sack downward
Mix in Sex Toys
For added fun, ask your guy if he’s open to experimenting with sex toys. If he is, try incorporating a vibrating cock ring, a male masturbator, or even a urethral sound.
He may want to start simple and work up to more advanced toys.
