The beautiful thing about a hand job is that there are no limits as to when and where one can happen--aside from socially acceptable locales, of course. Hand jobs can also be a fun and frisky way to rev up your guy so that he’s pumped and ready for action. And with a few minor modifications, you could introduce him to a variety of different hand job techniques that will have him coming back for more. 

Need to Know Hand Job Techniques

When it comes to hand jobs, you are better off keeping it simple. Don’t overthink it. Just make sure that you ask your guy what he likes, dislikes, and is open to trying. Then, just pay attention to vocal, facial, and other body cues, too. 

With that in mind, here are a few basics to help you go from start to happy ending.    

Start with Lube

First things first. You need to buy a good lube. When your guy began exploring the pleasures of stroking his happy stick at an early age, he may have relied on a bit of spit to reduce friction. Thankfully, he was later introduced to the much more functional uses of intimate lube. 

But not all lubes are created equal. So, if you are unsure of whether or not you should buy a silicone, water, or oil-based lube, we have a blog that provides extensive details on which variety may work best for you and your guy. 

Just be aware that you should use lots of it. You should also know that oil-based lubes degrade latex. More specifically, you could end up with an ineffective condom if you plan to follow-up with sliding into penetrative sex.  

Use Different Strokes

As that old saying goes, there are different strokes for different folks. Depending on your guy's preference, you may want to gradually transition from firm to soft pressure, slow to fast pace, and then add-on a twisting motion as you glide up and down.  

You can also try encircling the base of his penis with one hand (like a cock ring), while using your other hand to stroke using different techniques with just a few fingers or your whole hand. Or, fist both hands on top of each other and pulse fingers while twisting up and down. 

Now if your guy never had his foreskin removed that creates different pleasure enhancement opportunities. Ask for guidance on what your guy prefers, as he may or may not want you to retract the skin to caress the sensitive head underneath. 

Taint, Like the Others

Another sensitive erogenous zone on your guy is the taint (aka perineum). It’s that bit of space situated between his scrotum and anus. You can try to hit his G-spot by gently pushing up and into this area as if you were pressing on a button.   

Some Guys Are Ballers   

Now for some guys, they’d prefer your focus to be 100% on their penis. For others, they don’t mind a little bit of ball play too. If he gives you the green light, avoid squeezing them like lemons, or trying to roll them like marbles.  

Instead, try one of these hand job techniques that include ball play:

• Gently cradle them in one hand 
• Lightly caress your fingers around them
• Softly stroke the super-sensitive area between the two testicles
• Slide a finger from the top of one sack down

Mix in Sex Toys

Now let’s get back to the point mentioned earlier about asking your guy if he might be open to exploring different ways to modify a standard hand job. If he is, we suggest mixing in a cock ring (vibrating or not), a male masturbator, and/or a urethral sound.  

Again, he may want to start simple and work up to the more robust sex toys.  

Need More Advice

If you need more tips on hand job techniques that will make him come back for more, pick up a copy of the adult erotica book titled Tickle His Pickle - Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing. 

Within its pages you will get the added bonus of discovering 50 sizzling techniques to master oral love making, plus 10 tips to “avoid the biggest penis no-no's.” 

Preventative Care Reminder: Glove Up to Prevent STIs

For those of you who found this hand job blog and were unaware of certain health risks… consider this a friendly health reminder that you can catch and spread blood-borne sexually transmitted infections (STIs) by giving or receiving a hand job.  

Small cuts, puncture wounds, cracked skin, etc. on your hands, fingers, and their genitals provide ample opportunity for sexually transmitted bacteria, parasites, and viruses to enter your body. 

If you are unsure of potential health risks to you or your partner, just slip on some latex or nitrile gloves for added protection.   

Get Hands On with FunLove.com 

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